To My Father, ..... With Lots Of Love ..!

I’d like to dedicate this post to all the wonderful fathers, father figures, and male mentors out there who have touched the lives of people out there: be it your own kids, others’ kids, your family, people you’ve mentored, people you’ve coached, and the world at large. Thank you for all that you do. Thank you for being you. We appreciate your existence and the often times silent but impact role you have played in our lives.

||  This Song is Dedicated to All The Fathers  ||

Ye Kashtam Edhurochina

Kanneellu Yedirinchina

Aanandam Ane uyyalalo Nanu Penchina

Nannaku Prematho Nannaku Prematho

Nannaku Prematho Ankitham Naa Prathi Kshanam

Ne..ney Darilo Vellinaa

Ye Addu Nannaapina

Nee Venata Ne Nunnanani Nanu Nadipinchina

Nannaku Prematho Nannaku Prematho

Nannaku Prematho Ankitham Naa Prathi Kshanam

Ye Thappu ne chesina

Thappatadugule vesina

O chinni chirunavvuthone

Nanu mannichina

Nannaku Prematho Nannaku Prematho

Nannaku Prematho Ankitham Naa Prathi Kshanam

Ye oosu ne cheppina

Ye pata ne padina

Bhale Undhi Malli Padara

Ani murisipoina

Nannaku Prematho Nannaku Prematho

Nannaku Prematho Ankitham Naa Prathi Kshanam

Ee Andhamaina Rangula Lokana

Oke Janmalo Vandha Janmalaku Premandhinchina

Nannaku Prematho Nannaku Prematho

Nannaku Prematho

*****

Togetherness Is The Key Of Joy

Today we focus more on earning and maintaining a standard life, hence life of the present generation has become too much busy but apparently we fail to make a balance between social and professional life. 

Believe me, every weekend when I meet up with my friends I feel more like competition rather than engaging in gossips. It’s the competition to express that who were busiest in the entire week, I realized that we forgot to gossips like the old days about holidays, party, girls etc. I catch up with these buddies but still I feel the lack of joy of real togetherness.

I remember my childhood days when I used to go out to the playground with my childhood friends and spent out our golden by playing around the field, dancing and singing all around with joy. 

I got a standard life, I got my childhood desire fulfilled but I did not feel the joy that I used to had at my village with nature. Just few years back when we used to go out for shopping at mall, brand outlets and we used to had some sort of joy, togetherness with friends, family and peace of mind after shopping but in present day we are engaged more in online shopping which doesn’t give that peace and satisfaction of mind but still we are engaged with it. 

Most of the people in this generation suffers with depression, hypertension etc because of the lack of togetherness, where they can share their feelings openly and face to face with others.

Togetherness is not hanging with friends and family on Facebook and Skype , its is not sharing the festival wishes on Whats-app and other online messenger  , togetherness is coming up and catching up together in real world where we can share our joy , sorrows and happy moments together. Togetherness is something that reunites our lost happy souls together.  

Nature plays a great role to reunites us, remember the childhood when we use to build sand house at beach with friends, mom and dad. That bunch of joy at school when we used to plant trees together with our friends.

We know that we are so busy to make our life stable and standard by working overtime, overnight  but to make our life more stable and healthy. It is very important to make a proper balance between our personal and professional life so that we can find some space from our daily busy schedule and spend some moments with the people you love and with the people who makes you laugh out loud. Believe me you will lead a happy life.

A Letter To My Future Wife: I Want To Keep You Happy Forever

My dear future wife,

I hope you are reading this, and if you aren’t then I wish you stumble upon this letter because I want you to know a few things…

I can’t stop thinking about you and the time when we will be together. I want this letter to be the evidence of a promise to become the man of your dreams!

I may not be aware about the difficulties and responsibilities that will come after our marriage but I promise to handle them as wisely as I can.

I have seen many couples in my life and all of them worked as a source of education and now I vow to do the following things in the best way possible:

1. Your smile will be my priority. Your happiness will be my concern.

All that I will want from myself will be the capability to keep you happy forever.

2. My love for you will multiply each day and will increase every second.

I promise to look at you with same adoration till my last breath!

3. That sparkle in your eyes that  you get when you are motivated, excited, inspired or about to kiss me, I will keep that ignited forever.

4. I promise to keep you entertained and not to make your life monotonous.

We will try different hobbies, things of our interest, etc. and keep this adventurous ride on.

5. I promise to be your friend, a friend with whom you can be free.

Free to express your wants and desires. You can discuss anything with me, and together we will laugh at our silly past.

6. I promise to motivate you. You don’t have to stop thinking about your dreams.

Because I want you to live your dreams.

7. I promise to kiss you the same way we kiss the first time.

That passion will last till eternity.

8. I promise to help you with the chores. I promise to cook for you.

Because I know that you will feel special if I do that.

9. I promise to take care of our children. They won’t be your responsibility alone!

You alone don’t have to give up sleep. I will be there by your side to take care of them.

10. I promise to love your family as much as you love them, and  try to be there for them.

I know how important they are for you. I will never try to make you forget them. Rather, I will become a part of your family.

11. I won’t be anything without you and I will make you feel how important you are for me and my life.

My life will be of no meaning without you and I will make sure you know this.

12. I promise not to take your independence - physically, intellectually, or emotionally.

You don’t have to give up your personal space for anything. That personal time will be all yours.

Darling, these are not just my thoughts but actual promises from my side. I don’t know when we will be together but I know that I will try to make each moment of your life beautiful and worth remembering. I will become the man of your dreams. I promise to love you from the moment you enter my life till my last breath.

                                             Your loving future husband.

                                           (With Lots Of For  Future)

I Always Want To Be With You ...

My Dear Love

No matter what happens and how long we will still have to be apart, you will always be in my heart. But I had to write to you today and, in a way, try to sooth this feeling that took over me so strongly! 

To miss someone is something you can´t explain; and being a painful consequence of love, it may even be harder to describe than love itself... 

To miss someone is the desire to be close, to see and touch the other person. It´s a wish to repeat certain moments, to relive situations that uplifted our souls. And you know how much your presence has always calmed and, at the same time, cheered my body and soul. 

I needed to tell how much I am missing you today and how good it would make me feel to have you close to mine, to hold hands, to feel you breath and to look into your eyes. I miss the simple things...

Yet, simple as they may be, they can only come true when you are near. I hope it won´t be long before I can experience those pleasant feelings again! 

     Yours Lovingly Heart

My 2k16 Nw Year's Resolutions ....

Every year staring, I’m stared to list my New Year’s resolutions.

Some people make resolutions every day and they don’t need the New Year to make resolutions. For some, the first of the year is a starting time for change.

For me, it’s just another way to recall my goals. I set my goals every few months, but First, I like to reflect on last year’s resolutions before making 2016 resolutions, in case any will carry over.

Here are 2015‘s resolutions. Let’s look at 2015:

1.  “Create My own Blog” – Accomplished

From my college days I have an interest that, I want to write my own story and I wrote my story in word file about 10 pages. And I am happy while I reading the stuff again and again. Also in my college days I wrote love letters. All the things ultimately drives me to create my own blog and I am successful in that part.

2. “Publishing My own Website” – Yet to be Accomplished

I am interested to learn things by my own and I am happy while I learn any new thing. I learned HTML, CSS and I started to create small designs. I am created my own website design using HTML, CSS also I completed the domain registration. But I don’t know the proper knowledge about hosting a website so I postpone my website for a shooter period soon I will intimate you all about my website.

MY 2016 NEW YEAR’S RESOLUTIONS

1. “Enjoying Life to the Fullest”

Last year I have traveled “Chennai”, “Delhi” and I enjoyed a lot.  But I am in Bangalore for last Six months I haven’t traveled a lot in Bangalore, so I want to explore Bangalore in this year.

2. "Spend more time with friends and family”

This year, I want to stay more in tuned with my friends and family and make more of an effort.

3. "Become a morning person”

This is the year that I become a morning person! Starting January 4th (the first Monday of the New Year), I’ll be waking up early and starting my day at 7am instead of 8am. That 1-hour change will result in 5 more hours in the work week!

4. "Take more time for myself”

Even though I’m alone every day I don’t get any perfect time to myself. As I Love to read books but I don’t get time. So I want to take more time for me that’s reading for 30 minutes.

5. "Try to improve my writing skills”

As this is my first attempt and I still need time to improve my writing skills. As well as to post my past memories I need time to frame my memories.

That's all about my new year resolutions and i will try to accomplish.

Things I Learnt In 2k15...

In The year 2015 I guess I have lived several good times more than I had thought. Now when I look back into the days for this year I get emotional as it was such a pity year for me.  I had both good and bad times and literally from them I learnt lots of life lessons.

Life is what we make it.

Well, there are lot things for that we often blame God and others for something bad happened in our life. Our life moves according to our choice and wills, whatever we are, whatever we are suffering from whether it is bad or good it is all because of our will, deeds, choices and habits. We can't blame God for anything, we have our life, brain, limbs and strength given by him which is enough capable to handle anything and anything we want to do... in sort "as we do, so we reap"

Our past will only hurt us.

We may had did a lots of worst things, suffered from worst situations for which now we often regret. But whispering these types of past will only hurt and would not allow to welcome the good times that are yet to come. Honestly from my own life experience.

Being thankful for everything is the fastest way to feel better.

What every may be happen we should always be strong to face the problem. And we should thank to them those who are helps us directly or indirectly to make us feel better.

Other people are never judging me the way I judge myself.

I strongly believe that my perceptions will always shape my reality (What I want to be).

"Being your best self" won't happen every day.

It means you live and learn and love and grow into yourself a little more each day, and pray you get as close to getting right as you want.

Human beings are the most wonderful species on planet earth.

As Man is a social being so we are sounded by a society of peoples and they are directly or indirectly helps us to improve ourselves. So we are thankful to them.

Human beings are the most destructive species on planet earth.

As “All glitters are not Gold”, so there a peoples who always tries to pull-down our legs and creates huddles in our path. So be careful of them.

The Learning Never Stops.

Life is a continuous learning process, in each and every moment of life gives us a lesson and which takes us to higher level to achieve our goals.

There is no path, There is no right way.

There isn’t no road map, no course of direction or action that will get you to whatever promise land you dream of. You, as a singular being, will discover that at your own time, at your own pace.

Well let’s thrust behind all our grief, worries and let’s begin the New Year as new life in new way with lot of hopes.

A change I want to see.....

Everything in everywhere need a change according to time and condition. Change is something to clear out the old ones and make way for new ones. Everywhere change is needed for development, for survival, to bring prosperity and growth. We human being also need to change according to the need of our surroundings but keep in mind the never change the best in you and in your things.

Well the changes that I want everyone would see is...

The one thing everyone would See/learn is to respect each others differences. I wish people would try to understand the differences that make us unique instead of thrusting on those who are not similar...

I wish everyone would See/learn and know about their passion. If you are trapped between your choice and what others think right about you. Always choose the path that makes you happy.

I wish everyone would See/learn to leave behind their past, because past can only hurt if we let it. Whispering the past would not let you live the good moments that are yet to come.

I wish everyone would See/learn something from every mistakes. Mistakes can teach us important lessons, every time we make one, we are one step ahead to our goal.

I wish everyone would See/learn that "THIS MOMENTS IS YOUR LIFE" Our life is not between our birth and death, our life is between now and our next breath.

Each mistake teaches us something …

Sometimes, I think I am alone in a world full of frustration and disappointment with myself. I do mistakes then I think a lot about it, regret and thus end up with feeling guilty, but then again I feel my emotions are overwhelming to weaken me down. I look around and then I see I am not alone fooling around, and I am the not only one who does big mistakes and has a bad past.

Well, life is not always very easy; it’s like the ups and downs of waves in the oceans. 

You know, our life is very simple, but we always make it complicated. We choose the path that we love, do mistakes, then fail and then we regret for our mistakes and the things become more complicated.

Mistakes that we did in our past have a great effect in our present life and it really sucks mentally, emotionally and physically. We lose hope, we regret and blah. But making mistakes doesn’t mean that we have failed to achieve what we want because we always have the chance to rectify our mistakes.

As each mistake gives us one more chance to understand our weakness and teaches us to rectify it and thus it also gives us chance to learn something new.

One thing I have learned from my life is that, nothing is permanent in this world except the changes. Each and everything that has begun, it does not matter what is it, has some changes and an end. Just Like once we were child then we grew up and after some year we will die old, even our troubles are not permanent, they will sure end someday somehow. 

Usually we settle up our mind for having forever about the things we have in our life. We think of having our life, love, job, lifestyle, our beauty forever, who doesn’t want? But, Life has many upstairs, downstairs and U turns that we have never imagined or we cannot imagine, which washes away everything that we have dreamed and achieved, then suffer from the trauma, & lose confidence.

Our life comes with no guarantee, then how can we be sure about the things in our life? I believe to have at least one negative reason behind thousand positive reason .It will help to map the mind about uncertain situation that may occur someday then we can stand strong with confidence rather than dissolving ourselves in trauma. 

Life comes with no guarantee and it has begun from the day we came into mother’s womb. Life has many twists and turns that are out of our imaginations, I am sure some of you must have experienced it. 

You have dreams , passion, desires and work very hard to achieve them, may be you worked very hard to get a job, you prepared very well to get admission in your desired college , you try your best to your loved ones to be the most lovable person in his/his life and have a great relationship, but sometimes you have got or you may get twists when everything would be out of your hands , everything slipped out your hand in a while, like a handful of sands ,the more you try to hold tightly the more it spilled out of your palm.

Like we do programming with IF and ELSE case, we also need to be prepared our life with plan B, because we don’t know when our life will take a giant twist and take into a situation of uncertainty.

We can’t overcome or avoid the uncertainty but with this we can suit ourselves with the present situation rather than staying out of confidence, it will help us to step forward to deal and get out of the situation. Think about the days where you were before, no pain and no sort of problems, I am sure you will find out a way.

Don’t get disheartened, it will not let the good times those are yet to come, just stay focused and keep your hopes alive, when it will be the perfect time you will have something great in your store.

Keep Smiling and have faith on yourself......

MY INSPIRATION FOR BLOGGING

I understand that every single activity that a person wish to do in His life needs an inspiration and self-interest, whether it may be profession, art, hobby, or any kind of activity. I am writing this for my self-satisfaction.

Earlier I was thinking of blogging but I didn’t get it that what to write and how to write. I got no interest nor had an experience of writing. So my blogging idea is stopped there itself. 

During my college days I am interested in web designing that to I learned it in my own interest. I never done any course but I know if you have interest to do something and you put your effort 100% then you will do whatever you want to do.

I spend most of my time in experimenting different designs and search new stuffs for my designs. I don’t know why I have so much of interest in designing. Also my mother is so much worried about me since I am always with my laptop.

And then I am gradually learn HTML, then CSS and start designing small layouts. It gives more energy once I have succeed in getting the exact design which I want to get. So I learn new things each and every day and also I am learning now.

As I have learned but I don’t know whether I can use my learning skills into reality so finally I decided to create my blog. I will write and add whatever I can whether it will be attract the readers or not.

I have a dream that I want to do something in this world of internet and blogging, but I don't know it will be realistic. So I am happy with my work since this is only for my satisfaction 

Thanks people for giving your time to read it. 

I AM PROUD TO BE AN “ENGINEER"

Dedicated To All "My Engineering Friends" !

A Message To PM “Narendra Modi” From Engineers -

Sir we have done 22 years of hard work commitments and with hope. Our parents have invested lakhs of rupees for our education but sir what is the use of it? Even after hard work for such a long time we are unemployed. My college didn't even call up for a single company in campus drive.

My seniors asked me to create account in Naukri but no use. I only get updates for B.P.O and tech supports. Sir S.S.L.C is more than enough to work in a B.P.O Seniors then asked me to go in search of a job myself. I did but companies today don't need fresher's they only need experience candidate.

Companies are hiring freshers only if they have good reference. But I don't have reference or influence: - I ‘Failed'

Then some people asked me to approach some industries and to hand over my resumes to hand it over to watch man's. I even did that but watch man answers me that our company has vacancies only for ITI and Diplomas, we don't need engineers. I failed.

Then some people suggested me to join some consultancy. I even did that. Consultancy showed me a ray of hope. They arranged me for an interview. I went there first question asked by H.R. was:-

"What will you do from morning till evening?"

I answered that I SEARCH jobs.

He laughed at me and suggested to join some courses. Okay!! I even did that by investing some more money to complete my dreams.

Then consultancy arranged me for one more interview, I went there it was a small scale industry. I got selected in 3 rounds of interview. H.R offered me 8000 to 10000 rupees per month with a two years bond in a metropolitan city where I at least need 10000 rupees to fulfil my basic needs has a bachelor. Respected sir would you accept this type of a job?

I guess NO.

My friend who has secured very less marks than me us working in a M.N.C will a package of 25000 because he had influence.

Sir we have invested lakhs and have done hard work not to earn 8000.

We avoid attending family programmes not because we have EGO but it’s because we don't have job. First question asked by relatives is

"What are you doing now?"

Sir I feel ashamed to answer this question.

Whenever I call my parents the first question they asked me is "Did you get a Job?" I again feel ashamed.

I have to ask money from my dad at least for food and shelter. This is the most worst moment, I feel ashamed.

One small request sir if India don't have potential to give employment stop giving license to new colleges. 50 new Engineering college are been permitted every year in my state. Is that important? Around 2 lakh students are joining for engineering every year only in my state.

Why is that sir? I have lost all my faith because I have gone through very bad times and failures.

But I AM PROUD TO BE AN “ENGINEER".

This is not only my story, but every engineer who don't have money and influence.

WE BADLY NEED YOUR HELP. YOU ARE OUR ONLY HOPE SIR ‪#‎NARENDRAMODI

Share it with everyone and One Day it will reach to our PM ‪#‎NARENDRAMODI.

About Life ...

My Views on “Life”

"Everybody’s life doesn’t turn out

to be a fairy tale. But each person’s life at

some point of time somehow turns out to

be a story in itself "

According to  me, life is very precious and beautiful. Life is beautiful but not always easy, it has problems, too, and the challenge lies in facing them with courage gives the real kike of your life. Happiness, sorrow, victory, defeat are the two sides of the life coin. Similarly life is full of moments of joy, pleasure, success and comfort punctuated by misery, defeat, failures and problems.

Live the life up to the fullest happy.What happened yesterday is history, what happens tomorrow is mystery, yesterday’s tomorrow and tomorrow’s yesterday is today so enjoy.This moment will never come again, so live as u like to live.

There is no human being on earth, strong, powerful, wise or rich, who has not experienced struggle, suffering or failure. A person who has not encountered difficulties in life can never achieve success. Difficulties test our courage, patience, perseverance and true character of us. So every person has to face the ups and downs of life, not forgetting that life is a mix of success and failure, joy and sorrow.

Life is beautiful just as roses but it has challenges which are like thorns and have to be faced and overcome by all. Those who accept these, challenges and succeed, are the one who know how to live the life in its true sense.Thus enjoy life but also prepared to bear the pricks of pain.

Always don't forget to say yourself that: “ I’ll live to my own terms, I’ll listen to my heart only and I’ll do what I like to do is this the way I am. Spreading smiles… Sharing happiness….. i enjoy the rest of my life”

My Inspiration:

Life is a battle field, God put all of us in a war zone. Be alert, protect yourself  keep a Goal in life and do anything to achieve it. The people who have no Goal in life die as fast as possible,Because there is no use with them those  who have no Goal in life.

Remember  one  thing, that no one is greater than you. Do whatever  you feel like and don’t  listen to anyone especially the human being.

“ if your target is at 10 miles, Aim for the 11th mile”.

By: Mahesh Babu (Actor)

Courtesy: Businessman