Thursday, December 24, 2015

Each mistake teaches us something …


Sometimes, I think I am alone in a world full of frustration and disappointment with myself. I do mistakes then I think a lot about it, regret and thus end up with feeling guilty, but then again I feel my emotions are overwhelming to weaken me down. I look around and then I see I am not alone fooling around, and I am the not only one who does big mistakes and has a bad past.
Well, life is not always very easy; it’s like the ups and downs of waves in the oceans. 

You know, our life is very simple, but we always make it complicated. We choose the path that we love, do mistakes, then fail and then we regret for our mistakes and the things become more complicated.

Mistakes that we did in our past have a great effect in our present life and it really sucks mentally, emotionally and physically. We lose hope, we regret and blah. But making mistakes doesn’t mean that we have failed to achieve what we want because we always have the chance to rectify our mistakes.

As each mistake gives us one more chance to understand our weakness and teaches us to rectify it and thus it also gives us chance to learn something new.

One thing I have learned from my life is that, nothing is permanent in this world except the changes. Each and everything that has begun, it does not matter what is it, has some changes and an end. Just Like once we were child then we grew up and after some year we will die old, even our troubles are not permanent, they will sure end someday somehow. 

Usually we settle up our mind for having forever about the things we have in our life. We think of having our life, love, job, lifestyle, our beauty forever, who doesn’t want? But, Life has many upstairs, downstairs and U turns that we have never imagined or we cannot imagine, which washes away everything that we have dreamed and achieved, then suffer from the trauma, & lose confidence.

Our life comes with no guarantee, then how can we be sure about the things in our life? I believe to have at least one negative reason behind thousand positive reason .It will help to map the mind about uncertain situation that may occur someday then we can stand strong with confidence rather than dissolving ourselves in trauma. 

Life comes with no guarantee and it has begun from the day we came into mother’s womb. Life has many twists and turns that are out of our imaginations, I am sure some of you must have experienced it. 

You have dreams , passion, desires and work very hard to achieve them, may be you worked very hard to get a job, you prepared very well to get admission in your desired college , you try your best to your loved ones to be the most lovable person in his/his life and have a great relationship, but sometimes you have got or you may get twists when everything would be out of your hands , everything slipped out your hand in a while, like a handful of sands ,the more you try to hold tightly the more it spilled out of your palm.

Like we do programming with IF and ELSE case, we also need to be prepared our life with plan B, because we don’t know when our life will take a giant twist and take into a situation of uncertainty.

We can’t overcome or avoid the uncertainty but with this we can suit ourselves with the present situation rather than staying out of confidence, it will help us to step forward to deal and get out of the situation. Think about the days where you were before, no pain and no sort of problems, I am sure you will find out a way.

Don’t get disheartened, it will not let the good times those are yet to come, just stay focused and keep your hopes alive, when it will be the perfect time you will have something great in your store.

Keep Smiling and have faith on yourself......




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