When Do You Know Your Life Has Changed?

Here you can know your life has changed when? And the answers are:

1.  Life changed, when you are comfortable being only with yourself.

2. Life changed, if you are able to finally tell your story, and it doesn’t make you cry.

3. Life changed, when you understand that there is no difference between you and another soul.

4. Life changed, when you really fall in love, maybe have your heart broken and learn that you will survive.

5. Life changed, when you realize that money doesn’t buy happiness…

6. Life changed, when statements like ‘let’s meet and plan’ change to ‘let’s plan and meet’.

7. Life changed, when you realise that the excitement and happiness of ‘no college today’…

8. Life changed, when the day people search for you on Google rather than Facebook.

9. Life changed, when you wake up at your usual time in the morning without an alarm.

10. Life changed, when you passing by your school/college brings a smile on your face.

11. Life changed, when going home matters more than taking a vacation.

12. Life changed, when you stop demanding an answer to 'why'.

13. Life changed, when Dream job is no longer a Dream.

14. Life changed, If! You stop thinking of If!

15. Life changed, when you're able to laugh at yourself. 

A change I want to see.....

Everything in everywhere need a change according to time and condition. Change is something to clear out the old ones and make way for new ones. Everywhere change is needed for development, for survival, to bring prosperity and growth. We human being also need to change according to the need of our surroundings but keep in mind the never change the best in you and in your things.

Well the changes that I want everyone would see is...

The one thing everyone would See/learn is to respect each others differences. I wish people would try to understand the differences that make us unique instead of thrusting on those who are not similar...

I wish everyone would See/learn and know about their passion. If you are trapped between your choice and what others think right about you. Always choose the path that makes you happy.

I wish everyone would See/learn to leave behind their past, because past can only hurt if we let it. Whispering the past would not let you live the good moments that are yet to come.

I wish everyone would See/learn something from every mistakes. Mistakes can teach us important lessons, every time we make one, we are one step ahead to our goal.

I wish everyone would See/learn that "THIS MOMENTS IS YOUR LIFE" Our life is not between our birth and death, our life is between now and our next breath.

Merry Christmas ...

Dear Friends,

One more year has gone through and we all are waiting for a new upcoming year. Please let me take this opportunity wish you and your family a blessed and happy Christmas. May the coming year bring you all the success and happiness and let the good luck follow you all the time.

It is my pleasure that I have got this chance to wish you all the love and luck. We pray that you will get all the health and wealth and let this year be healthy and wealthy for you. Once again I wish you all the love and luck and happy Christmas and let this Christmas bring you all joy and happiness.

Thank you and Merry Christmas!

Lohi

Each mistake teaches us something …

Sometimes, I think I am alone in a world full of frustration and disappointment with myself. I do mistakes then I think a lot about it, regret and thus end up with feeling guilty, but then again I feel my emotions are overwhelming to weaken me down. I look around and then I see I am not alone fooling around, and I am the not only one who does big mistakes and has a bad past.

Well, life is not always very easy; it’s like the ups and downs of waves in the oceans. 

You know, our life is very simple, but we always make it complicated. We choose the path that we love, do mistakes, then fail and then we regret for our mistakes and the things become more complicated.

Mistakes that we did in our past have a great effect in our present life and it really sucks mentally, emotionally and physically. We lose hope, we regret and blah. But making mistakes doesn’t mean that we have failed to achieve what we want because we always have the chance to rectify our mistakes.

As each mistake gives us one more chance to understand our weakness and teaches us to rectify it and thus it also gives us chance to learn something new.

One thing I have learned from my life is that, nothing is permanent in this world except the changes. Each and everything that has begun, it does not matter what is it, has some changes and an end. Just Like once we were child then we grew up and after some year we will die old, even our troubles are not permanent, they will sure end someday somehow. 

Usually we settle up our mind for having forever about the things we have in our life. We think of having our life, love, job, lifestyle, our beauty forever, who doesn’t want? But, Life has many upstairs, downstairs and U turns that we have never imagined or we cannot imagine, which washes away everything that we have dreamed and achieved, then suffer from the trauma, & lose confidence.

Our life comes with no guarantee, then how can we be sure about the things in our life? I believe to have at least one negative reason behind thousand positive reason .It will help to map the mind about uncertain situation that may occur someday then we can stand strong with confidence rather than dissolving ourselves in trauma. 

Life comes with no guarantee and it has begun from the day we came into mother’s womb. Life has many twists and turns that are out of our imaginations, I am sure some of you must have experienced it. 

You have dreams , passion, desires and work very hard to achieve them, may be you worked very hard to get a job, you prepared very well to get admission in your desired college , you try your best to your loved ones to be the most lovable person in his/his life and have a great relationship, but sometimes you have got or you may get twists when everything would be out of your hands , everything slipped out your hand in a while, like a handful of sands ,the more you try to hold tightly the more it spilled out of your palm.

Like we do programming with IF and ELSE case, we also need to be prepared our life with plan B, because we don’t know when our life will take a giant twist and take into a situation of uncertainty.

We can’t overcome or avoid the uncertainty but with this we can suit ourselves with the present situation rather than staying out of confidence, it will help us to step forward to deal and get out of the situation. Think about the days where you were before, no pain and no sort of problems, I am sure you will find out a way.

Don’t get disheartened, it will not let the good times those are yet to come, just stay focused and keep your hopes alive, when it will be the perfect time you will have something great in your store.

Keep Smiling and have faith on yourself......

MY INSPIRATION FOR BLOGGING

I understand that every single activity that a person wish to do in His life needs an inspiration and self-interest, whether it may be profession, art, hobby, or any kind of activity. I am writing this for my self-satisfaction.

Earlier I was thinking of blogging but I didn’t get it that what to write and how to write. I got no interest nor had an experience of writing. So my blogging idea is stopped there itself. 

During my college days I am interested in web designing that to I learned it in my own interest. I never done any course but I know if you have interest to do something and you put your effort 100% then you will do whatever you want to do.

I spend most of my time in experimenting different designs and search new stuffs for my designs. I don’t know why I have so much of interest in designing. Also my mother is so much worried about me since I am always with my laptop.

And then I am gradually learn HTML, then CSS and start designing small layouts. It gives more energy once I have succeed in getting the exact design which I want to get. So I learn new things each and every day and also I am learning now.

As I have learned but I don’t know whether I can use my learning skills into reality so finally I decided to create my blog. I will write and add whatever I can whether it will be attract the readers or not.

I have a dream that I want to do something in this world of internet and blogging, but I don't know it will be realistic. So I am happy with my work since this is only for my satisfaction 

Thanks people for giving your time to read it. 

I AM PROUD TO BE AN “ENGINEER"

Dedicated To All "My Engineering Friends" !

A Message To PM “Narendra Modi” From Engineers -

Sir we have done 22 years of hard work commitments and with hope. Our parents have invested lakhs of rupees for our education but sir what is the use of it? Even after hard work for such a long time we are unemployed. My college didn't even call up for a single company in campus drive.

My seniors asked me to create account in Naukri but no use. I only get updates for B.P.O and tech supports. Sir S.S.L.C is more than enough to work in a B.P.O Seniors then asked me to go in search of a job myself. I did but companies today don't need fresher's they only need experience candidate.

Companies are hiring freshers only if they have good reference. But I don't have reference or influence: - I ‘Failed'

Then some people asked me to approach some industries and to hand over my resumes to hand it over to watch man's. I even did that but watch man answers me that our company has vacancies only for ITI and Diplomas, we don't need engineers. I failed.

Then some people suggested me to join some consultancy. I even did that. Consultancy showed me a ray of hope. They arranged me for an interview. I went there first question asked by H.R. was:-

"What will you do from morning till evening?"

I answered that I SEARCH jobs.

He laughed at me and suggested to join some courses. Okay!! I even did that by investing some more money to complete my dreams.

Then consultancy arranged me for one more interview, I went there it was a small scale industry. I got selected in 3 rounds of interview. H.R offered me 8000 to 10000 rupees per month with a two years bond in a metropolitan city where I at least need 10000 rupees to fulfil my basic needs has a bachelor. Respected sir would you accept this type of a job?

I guess NO.

My friend who has secured very less marks than me us working in a M.N.C will a package of 25000 because he had influence.

Sir we have invested lakhs and have done hard work not to earn 8000.

We avoid attending family programmes not because we have EGO but it’s because we don't have job. First question asked by relatives is

"What are you doing now?"

Sir I feel ashamed to answer this question.

Whenever I call my parents the first question they asked me is "Did you get a Job?" I again feel ashamed.

I have to ask money from my dad at least for food and shelter. This is the most worst moment, I feel ashamed.

One small request sir if India don't have potential to give employment stop giving license to new colleges. 50 new Engineering college are been permitted every year in my state. Is that important? Around 2 lakh students are joining for engineering every year only in my state.

Why is that sir? I have lost all my faith because I have gone through very bad times and failures.

But I AM PROUD TO BE AN “ENGINEER".

This is not only my story, but every engineer who don't have money and influence.

WE BADLY NEED YOUR HELP. YOU ARE OUR ONLY HOPE SIR ‪#‎NARENDRAMODI

Share it with everyone and One Day it will reach to our PM ‪#‎NARENDRAMODI.

About Life ...

My Views on “Life”

"Everybody’s life doesn’t turn out

to be a fairy tale. But each person’s life at

some point of time somehow turns out to

be a story in itself "

According to  me, life is very precious and beautiful. Life is beautiful but not always easy, it has problems, too, and the challenge lies in facing them with courage gives the real kike of your life. Happiness, sorrow, victory, defeat are the two sides of the life coin. Similarly life is full of moments of joy, pleasure, success and comfort punctuated by misery, defeat, failures and problems.

Live the life up to the fullest happy.What happened yesterday is history, what happens tomorrow is mystery, yesterday’s tomorrow and tomorrow’s yesterday is today so enjoy.This moment will never come again, so live as u like to live.

There is no human being on earth, strong, powerful, wise or rich, who has not experienced struggle, suffering or failure. A person who has not encountered difficulties in life can never achieve success. Difficulties test our courage, patience, perseverance and true character of us. So every person has to face the ups and downs of life, not forgetting that life is a mix of success and failure, joy and sorrow.

Life is beautiful just as roses but it has challenges which are like thorns and have to be faced and overcome by all. Those who accept these, challenges and succeed, are the one who know how to live the life in its true sense.Thus enjoy life but also prepared to bear the pricks of pain.

Always don't forget to say yourself that: “ I’ll live to my own terms, I’ll listen to my heart only and I’ll do what I like to do is this the way I am. Spreading smiles… Sharing happiness….. i enjoy the rest of my life”

My Inspiration:

Life is a battle field, God put all of us in a war zone. Be alert, protect yourself  keep a Goal in life and do anything to achieve it. The people who have no Goal in life die as fast as possible,Because there is no use with them those  who have no Goal in life.

Remember  one  thing, that no one is greater than you. Do whatever  you feel like and don’t  listen to anyone especially the human being.

“ if your target is at 10 miles, Aim for the 11th mile”.

By: Mahesh Babu (Actor)

Courtesy: Businessman

I have learned…

I’ve learned-

• that you cannot make someone love you. All you can do is be someone who can be loved. The rest is up to them.

I’ve learned-

• that no matter how much I care, some people just don’t care back.

I’ve learned-

• that it takes years to build up trust, and only seconds to destroy it.

I’ve learned-

• that no matter how good a friend is, they’re going to hurt you every once in a while and you must forgive them for that.

I’ve learned-

• that it’s not what you have in your life but who you have in your life that counts.

I’ve learned-

• that you should never ruin an apology with an excuse.

I’ve learned-

• that you can get by on charm for about fifteen minutes. After that, you’d better know something.

I’ve learned-

• that you shouldn’t compare yourself to the best others can do.

I’ve learned-

• that you can do something in an instant that will give you heartache for life.

I’ve learned-

• that it’s taking me a long time to become the person I want to be.

I’ve learned-

• that you should always leave loved ones with loving words. It may be the last time you see them.

I’ve learned-

• that you can keep going long after you can’t.

I’ve learned-

• that we are responsible for what we do, no matter how we feel.

I’ve learned-

• that either you control your attitude or it controls you.

I’ve learned-

• that regardless of how hot and steamy a relationship is at first, the passion fades and there had better be something else to take its place.

I’ve learned-

• that heroes are the people who do what has to be done when it needs to be done, regardless of the consequences.

I’ve learned-

• that money is a lousy way of keeping score.

I’ve learned-

• that my best friend and I can do anything or nothing and have the best time.

I’ve learned-

• that sometimes the people you expect to kick you when you’re down will be the ones to help you get back up.

I’ve learned-

• that sometimes when I’m angry I have the right to be angry, but that doesn’t give me the right to be cruel.

I’ve learned-

• that true friendship continues to grow, even over the longest distance. Same goes for true love.

I’ve learned-

• that just because someone doesn’t love you the way you want them to doesn’t mean they don’t love you with all they have.

I’ve learned-

• that maturity has more to do with what types of experiences you’ve had and what you’ve learned from them and less to do with how many birthdays you’ve celebrated.

I’ve learned-

• that you should never tell a child their dreams are unlikely or outlandish. Few things are more humiliating, and what a tragedy it would be if they believed it.

I’ve learned-

• that your family won’t always be there for you. It may seem funny, but people you aren’t related to can take care of you and love you and teach you to trust people again. Families aren’t biological.

I’ve learned-

• that it isn’t always enough to be forgiven by others. Sometimes you are to learn to forgive yourself.

I’ve learned-

• that no matter how bad your heart is broken the world doesn’t stop for your grief.

I’ve learned-

• that our background and circumstances may have influenced who we are, but we are responsible for who we become.

I’ve learned-

• that a rich person is not the one who has the most, but is one who needs the least.

I’ve learned-

• that just because two people argue, it doesn’t mean they don’t love each other. And just because they don’t argue, it doesn’t mean they do.

I’ve learned-

• that we don’t have to change friends if we understand that friends change.

I’ve learned-

• that you shouldn’t be so eager to find out a secret. It could change your life forever.

I’ve learned-

• that two people can look at the exact same thing and see something totally different.

I’ve learned-

• that no matter how you try to protect your children, they will eventually get hurt and you will hurt in the process.

I’ve learned-

• that even when you think you have no more to give, when a friend cries out to you, you will find the strength to help.

I’ve learned-

• that credentials on the wall do not make you a decent human being.

I’ve learned-

• that the people you care about most in life are taken from you too soon.

I’ve learned-

• that it’s hard to determine where to draw the line between being nice and not hurting people’s feelings, and standing up for what you believe.

I’ve learned-

• that people will forget what you said, and people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.

                  

A Guid To Palm Reading

What Do Your Fingers Say About You?

Does Each Finger Carry any Meaning?

 

Yes. Just as with the palm, the fingers on your dominant hand typically showcase your work and public personality, while the fingers on your other hand relate to your behaviour at home and in close relationships. Every person has some strong fingers and some weak ones. The stronger a particular finger, the more likely you are to exemplify its personality traits.

Here are the associated characteristics for each digit:

Thumb: Drive to succeed.

Index finger: Power, authority, vision, and influence.

Middle finger: Accountability, efficiency, security, growth, and wisdom.

Ring finger: Creativity, self-expression, and a yearning to be in the spotlight.

Pinkie: Communication style.

How Can You Tell Which Fingers Are Strong and Which Are Weak?

Weak digits are bent, crooked, leaning toward another finger, bending forward, or have areas that are damaged in some way. If your finger stands up straight and tall, it’s strong.

What Does the Shape of the Fingertips Reveal?

Round fingertips: You desire harmony and avoid disapproval.

Square or flat fingertips: You strive for precision and loathe vagueness.

Speculate fingertips (broad and flared): You love originality and despise routine.

Pointed fingertips: You like to put off practical affairs in favour of pursuing the unusual and the mystical.

Can You Learn Anything From the Spaces Between Your Fingers?

Yes. Rest your hands naturally on a flat surface, or hold them up comfortably up in the air. If your fingers are widely spread apart, then you’re probably independent and open to new experiences. If your fingers are held tightly together, you may be cautious, guarded, and self-contained. If your middle and ring fingers are spread apart, you’re not easily influenced by popular opinion. If those two fingers are close together, you tend to bend to societal expectations and rules. Look at the space between your pinkie and ring finger, too. If it’s extremely wide, that’s a sign that you’re dodging important conversations and that your relationships at home or at work could be suffering as a result. If the pinkie and ring finger are an average space apart (compare them to friends’ hands for a gauge), that means you’re an independent thinker.

                               Palm Reading Technique

First things first. Pick a hand—but not just any hand. For insight into your work life and how you present yourself to the world, focus on your dominant hand. To examine personal relationships, dreams, and emotional struggles, look at the other hand. Having trouble making out the lines? Cup your hand slightly under a bright lamp. Keep in mind: According to hand analysts, a less prominent line reflects an area of life that may need work, while a deeper one signals that the characteristic related to that line is strong and fully developed. 

The Head Line

If you have a…

Short line (ending near the centre of your palm, as shown here): You’re a fast thinker who reaches conclusions without any hemming and hawing.

Long, straight line (extending across the palm, toward the pinkie): Analyse much? You often find yourself mulling things over (and over) before coming to a decision.

Line that splits in two: Sensitive to others, you can easily see someone else’s perspective. This means you may change your opinion now and then.

Long, curved line (running down toward the bottom corner of the palm): You’re a creative thinker who can imagine many possible outcomes or approaches to any situation.

The Heart Line

If you have a…

Long, straight line (ending below the index finger, as shown here): You’re a rational, analytical thinker who always considers others’ feelings, and people appreciate that about you.

Short, straight line (ending between the middle and index fingers): You need your freedom. You show your love through actions more than words.

Long, curved line (arcing up and reaching the base of the middle finger): Your passions and desires drive you, and you don’t care who knows it.

Short, curved line (arcing up and ending about a half inch below the base of the middle finger): You are reserved and prefer small groups to big ones. You open up in one-on-one settings.

Line with two or more X’s at the outer palm: You’ve experienced a deep personal betrayal.

Line that splits in two: You have a habit of putting your emotions on the back burner to meet others’ needs.

The Life Line

If you have a…

Long line (curving around the ball of the thumb and ending at the base of the palm, as shown here): You’re a rock whom people count on to stay strong in difficult times.

Short line (ending near the centre of the palm): When the going gets tough, keeping busy helps you feel safe and secure.

Faint line: You may need to chill out now and then. Yoga, meditation, walking, or taking time to play could do you good.

Broken line: Each break in the line represents a traumatic experience that has had an impact on your life choices.

Important Things In Life

 A philosophy professor stood before his class with some items on the table in front of him. When the class began, wordlessly he picked up a very large and empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with rocks, about 2 inches in diameter.

He then asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.
 
So the professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar. He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles, of course, rolled into the open areas between the rocks.
 
He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They agreed it was.
 
The professor picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of course, the sand filled up the remaining open areas of the jar.
 
He then asked once more if the jar was full. The students responded with a unanimous “Yes.”
 
“Now,” said the professor, “I want you to recognize that this jar represents your life. The rocks are the important things – your family, your partner, your health, and your children – things that if everything else was lost and only they remained, your life would still be full. The pebbles are the other things that matter – like your job, your house, your car. The sand is everything else, the small stuff.”
 
“If you put the sand into the jar first,” he continued, “there is no room for the pebbles or the rocks. The same goes for your life. If you spend all your time and energy on the small stuff, you will never have room for the things that are important to you. Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Play with your children. Take your partner out dancing. There will always be time to go to work, clean the house, give a dinner party, or fix the disposal.”
 
“Take care of the rocks first – the things that really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand.”